How to build a therapeutic alliance with your client, with Raphael Bender

By Carol ParleroSeptember 1, 2022Become a better instructor

A FREE Live Community Session on “How to build a therapeutic alliance with your client’ hosted by Breathe Education’s CEO, Raphael Bender.

What You’ll Learn:

Introduction to the Whole Person Framework
A therapeutic alliance is where you and the client like and trust each other and agree on shared goals and strategies
How to use OARS skills to build a therapeutic alliance

You can find the link to the PDF of the lecture slides HERE.

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